We suggest you turn to the Tao Teh Ching:
49 The truly wise are selfless. People's needs are their needs. The good are treated with goodness; the bad are also treated with goodness; this is the goodness of Teh. The faithful are treated with faith; the faithless are treated with faith; this is the faith of Teh. The truly wise live peacefully and impartially. In their eyes people share a common heritage. The truly wise accept all people as their own family. -- tr. C. Ganson