We suggest you turn to the Tao Teh Ching:
58 Listlessly govern: Happy your people; Govern exactingly: Restless your people. "Bad fortune will Promote the good; Good fortune, too, Gives rise to the bad." But who can know to what that leads? For it is wrong and would assign To right the strangest derivations And would mean that goodness Is produced by magic means! Has man thus been so long astray? Accordingly, the Wise Man Is square but not sharp, Honest but not malign, Straight but not severe, Bright but not dazzling. -- tr. R. Blakney