We suggest you turn to the Tao Teh Ching:
66 How could the rivers and the seas Become like kings to valleys? Because of skill in lowliness They have become the valley's lords. So then to be above the folk, You speak as if you were beneath; And if you wish to be out front, Then act as if you were behind. The Wise Man so is up above But is no burden to the folk; His station is ahead of them To see they do not come to harm. The world will gladly help along The Wise Man and will bear no grudge. Since he contends not for his own The world will not contend with him. -- tr. R. Blakney