We suggest you turn to the Tao Teh Ching:
66. Leading from Behind Great rivers and seas are lords of all mountain streams, because they are good at staying below them. Therefore they are lords of the streams. Thus the wise in watching over the people speak humbly from below the people, and in leading the people get behind them. In this way the wise watch over the people but do not oppress them; they lead the people but do not block them. Thus everyone happily goes along without getting tired. Because they do not compete, the world cannot compete with them. -- tr. S. Beck